The last icon to the right in the boardcode bar is the hyperlink add in - click on it and then type the URL into the box for the URL and the text into the text box, then click Insert button to insert it into the right place in the message.
Dream Lover
Or if you know any html - the code is:
Type the wording you want here 
(Do not click this, it doesn't go anywhere!)
Open the link code with a [ then type url= http:// www. (whatever the url is) then close the ] and then type the wording you want here - i.e. -Dream Lover - then completely close the link code with the [ and the /url and the closure ]
Just remove the spaces or it won't work right, and I usually hit the preview button to make sure it looks how I want it to.
LOL and regarding the cougar question - here is what wikipedia says:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships
Cougar—a woman, 40[4] years of age or older, who pursues younger men, typically more than eight years her junior.[5] The origin of the word is debated; however, it is thought to have first appeared in print on the Canadian dating website Cougardate.com[6] and has been used in TV series, advertising and film. The 2007 film Cougar Club was dedicated to the subject and in Spring 2009 TV Land aired a reality show called The Cougar. The sitcom Cougar Town explores the difficulty and stigma of many so-called "Cougars".
