Hello, me again.

I am looking for a fic wherein Sesshoumaru once loved a human and she spurned him resulting in him developing his cold demeanour. Many years pass and he crosses her path again, she is married with grown children. He is haughty and cold, she makes some remark about him being, impossibly, even more beautiful than before. He does not speak to her, some servant (or uncle?) of his declares him the heir/lord of the west and calls all present to bow. She bows and Sesshoumaru walks off ignoring her whilst loathing her and all humans because of her.

In the end Sesshoumaru realizes that not all humans are like her, and he falls in love with Kagome(?)

This is just a flashback in the actual plot, but it it the only aspect I am sure of.

Thankyou in advance!

You might be talking about Temporal Sequence, by Chaos-and-Serenity:

www.fanfiction.net/s/2409375/1/Temporal_Sequence (rated M)

And even if it's not your fic, I higly recommend the reading... It's a great one.

Thankyou! I'm not sure if this is it just yet, but thanks anyway! Will let you know if it is the one I was thinking of.

He remembers about this human girl around the middle of the story, and then some more to the end. I don't recall any grown children, but the rest is pretty much as you described.